Avent : 4 étapes clés pour préparer son cœur

Advent: 4 key steps to prepare your heart

I- Refocus on prayer: open your heart to God

Advent is a special time to deepen one's relationship with God through prayer. This period invites us to enter into active expectation, speaking with the One we will celebrate at Christmas.

  • Practices to adopt:
    • Recite a daily Advent-specific prayer, such as the Advent Wreath Prayer .
    • Meditate on the Scriptures, especially the prophetic passages of the Old Testament that foretell the coming of the Messiah (e.g. Isaiah 7:14: “Behold, a virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel.” ).
    • Spend time in Eucharistic adoration to refocus on the real presence of Christ.

Prayer allows you to take an inward look at your soul and ask God to help you prepare your heart to receive His Son.

Prayer for the Advent Wreath

Blessing of the crown at the beginning of Advent

(to be done at the beginning of the Advent season, before lighting the first candle)

Lord our God,
we thank you for this Advent wreath,
sign of your luminous presence in the midst of our lives.
That these candles that will light up every week
awaken in us the hope of your coming.
Send your Spirit into our hearts,
that we may prepare the way for your Son, Jesus Christ.
He who lives and reigns forever and ever. Amen.

Prayer for each Sunday of Advent

  • 1st Sunday (Hope):

Lord, we light this first candle to symbolize hope.
Help us to remain vigilant as we await your coming.
Warm our hearts with your light.
You who are Emmanuel, God with us. Amen.

  • 2nd Sunday (Peace):

Lord, we light this second candle for peace.
Teach us to be artisans of peace around us
and to receive the peace of your infinite love.
Make our hearts a manger ready to welcome you. Amen.

  • 3rd Sunday (Joy):

Lord, this third candle lights up joy.
Help us to live in deep joy
that only your presence can give.
Fill our lives with your love,
and may we be witnesses of your light in this world. Amen.

  • 4th Sunday (Love):

Lord, we light this last candle for love.
You came to teach us to love without limits.
Prepare our hearts to welcome you fully at Christmas,
You, the Word made flesh, the perfect gift of your love. Amen.

II- Living a personal conversion: cleansing your soul

Christ comes to bring light into our darkness. Advent is a time to examine our conscience, recognize our weaknesses, and turn to God to renew our faith and hope.

  • Concrete actions:
    • Do a deep examination of your conscience, reflecting on the areas of your life where you need spiritual growth.
    • Receive the sacrament of reconciliation. This sacrament allows you to find inner peace and welcome Christmas with a purified soul.
    • Forgive those who have hurt you, as God invites us to forgive.

To be converted means not only to avoid sin, but also to turn with joy and confidence to Christ.

III- Practicing charity: opening your heart to others

The birth of Jesus in Bethlehem reminds us of God's immense love for humanity. This love must be reflected in our actions towards others.

  • Ideas for practicing charity:
    • Help people in need, whether through a material donation, a service or simply by listening attentively.
    • Take the time to visit isolated or elderly people.
    • Get involved in parish work, such as collections for families in difficulty.

To show charity is to make God's love visible in the world and to embody the light of Advent.

IV- Create a sacred space: integrate the spiritual into your daily life

Advent is also an opportunity to sanctify your daily actions and put God at the center of your home. This can be done through simple traditions that enrich your faith and that of your family.

  • Suggestions for sanctifying Advent:
    • Hang an Advent wreath and light a candle every Sunday to mark the weeks leading up to Christmas.
    • Read a passage of Scripture or a spiritual text each evening that meditates on the birth of Christ.
    • Teach children the meaning of Advent through activities such as creating a nativity scene or a liturgical calendar.

These practices help you live Advent with a heart attentive to the presence of God, while transforming your daily life into a path towards the light of Christmas.

Conclusion: An Advent to be reborn with Christ

Advent is not just an outward preparation for Christmas; it is an inner rebirth. By praying, converting, practicing charity and sanctifying one's daily life, every Christian can welcome Christ in a heart renewed and filled with joy.

As Saint Augustine said:
“Guard your heart; for where your treasure is, there will your heart be also. Prepare your heart, therefore, to receive the greatest treasure of all, Jesus Christ.”

This time of waiting then becomes a path of hope and love, leading us to the light of the Nativity.